It's a Friday night and my flat mate is leaving the country. i was feeling lonely, so i asked my friend to come sleep over. She happens to be a girl, and we are quite close.
I called my girlfriend, and asked if she was OK with it. Novia said no, because of the wrong impression it might give. Now i was stuck with the unpleasant task of asking her to leave. But i had to send her off.
Tonight i learned a lesson: i no longer have the liberties of single-hood. No more female sleep-overs. No more checking out cute chicks.
Hmmm... i guess with relationship, comes responsibility and accountability. But i have no regrets.
Friday, September 5
The Loss of Single-hood
chronicled by disgodkidd at Friday, September 05, 2008
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I learned that the hard way too...lol.
yep yep yep
now imagine if Novia's bestfriend was male... would you be okay if he spent the night?
Oh lord! I can't believe you asked another girl to keep you company...I would have slapped you, but then again, you are from a differnt land and maybe things are looked at differently...but honey, you try that mess here in the states, lol.
@Diamond hawk I love your comment...luv u girl!
i am with lady a. seriously why didn't you ask Novia to spend the night
and y can't u spend the night alone
dear open and honest ayo!!
you don't ask a female to spend the nite in ur place whether you have a girl friend or not...besides, what kind of guy can't sleep alone in a house..
ok too harsh!!Ayo pls dnt get tempted next time.
@Kafo, lol, lol, thank you!
@Matthew, when are you going to comment?! Don't try to hide now brother *wink*
@DH, if novia's best friend wanted to spend the night?....i'd burst a vein!....lol...
@lady a, mercy, mercy...these things are looked at the same way in 9ja...guess am just an alien...with a pure mind...seriously, asking a girl to sleep over at my place is as natural to me as asking a guy...cos most of my friends are girls anyway...i did it with the innocence of youth....
@kafo, novia has been ut of town for a while, and will be out for quite a while...and i can spend the night alone...i guess i just needed company
@anon, av been scratching my head at who you are...pray tell....i hate not knowing
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