Tuesday, August 5

Love Story 301

Being in love, or loving someone, does not mean that i will like everything she does, or that she will like everything i do.

Communication. Don't underestimate it. It is key to keeping a relationship. For when you both stop talking, you both stop walking.

True, being the one to stand down, is not an easy task. But remaining uncommunicative is a sure way to splitting up.

Update: Novia and I talked later in the night on yahoo. Not what i would have wanted, but under the circumstances, it was the option we had if we didn't want the friction to carry over. And i realized that i had heard what she didn't say; and she had said what she didn't mean.

Lesson learned: Never sweat the small stuff!

3 comments:

pea-culiar! said...

This is deep, what's going on?

believer said...

True talk, i like the way you are sharing the lessons you are learning. There is no substitute for communication.It is an important foundation for any relationship

Remi, United Kingdom said...

Hey, hope you are good..
Hhmmm, I agree with beliver "there is no substitute for commuication" keep talking and talking and talking. Sometimes in relationships, I believe disagreements and some times fights are healthy, they help us to understand the other person and the shape of things to come.
Have a great week. much luv