Monday, July 14

Anniversary Ideas and PS!

Paula commented about me referring to my girlfriend with initials as impersonal. well, i cannot use her real name as am not sure she is totally comfortable with me blogging about her life, and since am not very enlightened in the Nigerian language, i decided to use the Spanish word for girlfriend, the first letter of which is incidentally the first letter of her name. So from henceforth, Novia=N.

i was working on another post for today, but am yet to complete it. Novia and I are presently on a flat note. We have had some little skirmishes - disagreement in some matters - which i think is healthy and a good sign(although it terribly messes up my emotions) that we are not too lovey-dovey and mushy-mushy to ignore the little differences in opinions. so the post was to be about lessons am learning in working a relationship. hopefully it should be ready by tomorrow.

However today, my ladies, i need your help. in two days, it will be our one month anniversary, and i would like to do or give Novia something special. my options are limited considering its a Wednesday and a service day, and since Pastor Chris is in town, she will most likely be working with the camera crew, and we won't have so much time together. so am asking for gift ideas to celebrate one month of my first relationship. since Novia is aware of my blog, and pops in now and then, all suggestions should please be sent to my mailbox ayomipo[at]gmail.com. Thanks peeps.

PS: So that all of BlogVille may know, i finally told Novia, and am telling you all here: I Love Novia!

PSS:
Novia‎‎ [11:02 AM]:
baby u there?
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [11:09 AM]:
hello
‎‎Novia‎‎ [11:10 AM]:
hello?
??????????
r u upset or something?
????????????????\
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [11:11 AM]:
am here, but my emotions are still a little messed up. pls give me some time to clear my head so that i dont hurt you deliberately or unconsciously. i love you, i just need to deal wit my emotions right now. please.
‎‎Novia [11:12 AM]:
ok bye
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [11:12 AM]:
i'll call you.

PSSSS:
‎‎Novia‎‎ [2:44 PM]:
buzz
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [2:44 PM]:
hi sweeheart
thnk u
‎‎Novia‎‎ [2:45 PM]:
hi
4?
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [2:45 PM]:
4 being sweet, and understanding and so loveable
‎‎Novia‎‎ [2:45 PM]:
sounds like me
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [2:45 PM]:
thats why i thank God that i got you
‎‎Novia‎‎ [2:46 PM]:
great
sorry 4 acting up
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [2:46 PM]:
am sorry 4 acting up too
so hw av u been?
‎‎Novia‎‎ [2:47 PM]:
k
noticing ur not calling me and talking to me
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [2:48 PM]:
its cos of how much i love you
i didnt want to take a chance of hurting you with my words
until i was sure i could respond beyond my emotions
but i missed u every second
i just have some growing up to do in my emotions
sorry
and thnks for understanding
‎‎Novia‎‎ [2:53 PM]:
its ok
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [2:53 PM]:
ok. hv u eaten?
‎‎Novia‎‎ [2:54 PM]:
doughnut cake n a drink.
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [2:54 PM]:
they served us lunch. wat abt urs?
‎‎Novia‎‎ [2:57 PM]:
i guess my office assistant isnt ready yet.
5 mins pls
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [3:01 PM]:
k
‎‎Novia‎‎ [3:11 PM]:
back
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [3:11 PM]:
ok
so u got lucnh now?
‎‎Novia‎‎ [3:13 PM]:
not yet
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [3:15 PM]:
sorry
hows ur work going?
‎‎Novia‎‎ [3:16 PM]:
ok

‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [3:20 PM]:
ok, hey need to do sum stuff now, can i buzz u later?
‎‎Novia‎‎ [3:22 PM]:
k
‎‎Ayomipo Edinger‎‎ [3:22 PM]:
i love u. ALWAYS
‎‎Novia‎‎ [3:22 PM]:
me too

5 comments:

Ore said...

Awww, how sweet!

DiAmOnD hawk said...

aawwww DGG... I love your response... that's so sweet... I was listening to a podcast yesterday and it talked about not marrying someone you've never had a disagreement with... because you need to know how that person handles conflict... it's not all lovey dovey all the time...

pea-culiar! said...

Awww!

Okay so I was "aww"ing over the comment you left on my blog and I came here to "revenge" but have been seriously derailed by this very cute post! (The things you do to me.) In any case, I must accomplish my mission:

Thank you for the reminder! Yes, I am very much reminded, lol.

I LOVE YOU TOO!! I don't think it's a "just because" kind of love. I think I probably love you because you love me just because. I'll tell you this, though: Nothing can change the love I have for you. God is our Glue. Thank you for loving me just because! And I'm rubbing in the JUST BECAUSE, just because it's rare and you of all people have had NO reason to stick around. And yet you have done more than stick around (does anyone else feel like I should have just done this as a blog entry?).

My love to Novia!

Jaycee said...

And she said "me too." *sigh*

Jem said...

AWWWWW